Last week, two Florida girls, ages 12 & 14, were
arrested on felony charges of taunting and bullying after a 12 year old Florida
girls committed suicide. This is a sad
realty in our world today. Bullying is
no longer happening face to face. It is
happening everywhere we have access to the internet and at all hours of the
day. For a victim it is difficult to
escape or find refuge when the attacks are happening even when you should be in
the safety of your own home.
Rebecca Sedwick committed suicide by jumping from an
abandoned cement factory tower in Lakeland, FL on September 9th. She had been a victim of bullying by at least
15 other girls utilizing on-line social networking sites such as Ask.fm,
Instagram, Kik, and Voxer.
More often than not, bullying has been extended to the
digital world. For parents and schools,
this is a difficult evolution. It is
difficult for parents to keep up with the latest trends in social networking.
It seems many of us just figured out Facebook only to have to new application
such as Instagram or Ask.fm become the application of choice.
We are living in a digital age and the responsibilities of
parents, schools, and children have changed.
We have to educate our children about the proper etiquette for using
social networking. As parents we have to
be open and honest with our children and have to be willing to learn about new
technology and be willing to check on our kids.
It is fine line between protecting our children and respecting their
privacy.
In addition to parents having more responsibilities, so do
you students. Here are some tips on how
to prevent and stop cyberbullying:
·
Make sure if you are members of social networking
sites, protect yourself by using the security features (for example, make your
profile private if you are on Instagram)
·
Never accept a “friendship” request unless you
know the person
·
Refuse to pass on cyberbullying messages
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Tell friends or others to stop
·
Block communication with cyberbullies, delete
messages without reading them
·
Never post or share personal information online
including full name, parents’ names, address
·
Never share internet passwords with anyone
·
Never put anything online you wouldn’t want your
classmates to see
·
Do not send messages when you are angry or upset
·
Always be as polite online as if you were in
person
If you are a victim of cyberbullying or become aware of
cyberbullying, you need to ask for help.
Find a
teacher or trusted adult and ask for assistance.
How many different social networking sites do you belong
to? Have you ever witnessed acts of
cyberbullying? Besides the suggestions I
provided, what are steps you believe would be helpful to stopping this behavior?